Optimism

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Optimism means positivity. Optimism means good vibes in and around. It means hoping for a good future. Optimism is the way of life, one gets a way to hope. With hope there comes a will to do certain things. It is very important that one lives life in a positive manner because positivity is like a fragrance of a flower which spreads across and delights one and all. It spreads across not just to our lives but also across to people who are connected to our lives and surrounding us. Thus I can say that positivity is a crucial element of life.

Let me now share with you one such example of positivity or optimism that I came across which totally stunned me. This incident is of the time when I was in school where exams were always a time of great pressure and this around we had our board exams. Which meant that there was stress and worry all over. We all wanted to perform our best and give our 100% best as this would carve out our future. Not just me but all my friends too were worried and so were our families.

With already so much pressure of the board examinations what happened next was pitiful. My best friend- Aditi’s mother happened to call me two days before our first exam only to inform me that Aditi has met with an accident and has got her hand fractured. I was shocked. I couldn't understand how I could help my best friend. I thought she wouldn't be able to give her exam and would get a year drop. I didn't want this to happen but then there was nothing, absolutely nothing that I could do about this to make her feel all right.

But to my wonder, my friend was not the type to let it go. She did not lose hope. She did not give up. She said that she would on urgent basis write an application to the board and ask for a scribe writer who on her behalf would write the paper for her. She would be telling the scribe what is to be written and he would just follow. This would ensure that she passes out normally like any of us would.

This is true optimism. Everybody faces problems in life and everybody comes across obstacles but true optimism is about not giving up. It is about making things okay. It is about trying to better things for your own self and for your won good because not always do we have good days. There are bad times and bad days too but what is important is to be positive and keep our calm during those days. It is our positive attitude that has the power of changing things. Had my friend given up she would not have been able to appear for the exams but she did not do that, she instead tried till she succeeded. This is the power of true optimism. 

Start a new life

Love is a very strong emotion. It can either make or break a person. When you are in love, you don’t understand anything and don’t even care about anything but just your loved one. This is not because you are dependent on that person but because you love the person so much that you can sacrifice

everything for the sake of love.

Love can actually make you blind and this I am saying with the little experience that I have. There are times when you are so badly in love with someone that you not only stop seeing and worrying what the world thinks about it but you cannot at times when judge whether or not that person loves you as much. Not because you are not able to judge otherwise but because you are so fond of that person that your judgement fail. This is exactly what happened with me. I was in a

relationship with this guy for one year. We both really liked each other, at least that is what I thought until I found out that it was just a one sided relationship. So we were college mates, we both liked each other in the beginning until things really changed.

We were together in a relationship for one year. It was on the day of our first anniversary that I found out that things weren't as good as they were earlier. I found out that he was on cheating on me. My friends had warned me of this but I didn't believe them. You won’t believe even after seeing him with another girl, I did not go and confront him the same day because of how much I loved him. I did not want things to change. But with time I realized that change are needed. They are

vital. They are a way of life and things must change with time because they cannot forever stay that way. They cannot be the way were always, they just cannot. I couldn’t allow him to cheat on me any further. I could not him have me as a second option any more, not any more. I brought this change in life. I changed for the good and I broke up with him. It obviously wasn't easy but I had to do it. I had to do it for myself this time.

It was this change that I brought in my life by moving away from my past. It was very difficult for me but it was needed is what I realized. I couldn’t let people cheat on me. It was about my ego and self-esteem this time. This time around I changed things and I broke up with him for a better life. He did not deserve so much love. He did not deserve someone like me who loved him unconditionally. That is how a brought a change and I #StartANewLife without him in it and without having someone cheating on me.

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Believe

The word “believe” is such a small word but it’s the most meaningful word in the entire dictionary, in my opinion. Believe means having faith, trust or confidence. You could have believe in yourself, sorry here you should have believe in yourself not could have.

It is very important that you have trust and confidence in your own self because remember if you don’t then who would? Having faith in your parents is the next most important thing. Remember they are your well-wishers, your supporters, they will always strive hard so that you can get better.

Believe in your friends? Yes, it’s important too but not blind faith. You don’t know them since forever but even if you do, you cannot trust them blindly. I am not telling you all to have a suspicious attitude towards your friends all the time. No that’s not what I am saying. All that I am actually saying is that be wise enough to know when you are supposed to do what. Don’t blindly trust anyone.

Believe in God? How do we forget this? This is utmost important. He is our creator. You will not be uncool if you went to a temple or chanted some mantras. Believe in God, pray to him.

Believe in Karma? Yes. I do believe in karma because what goes around comes around. If we do good, we get good and bad for bad. Since we were little we have learnt as sow so shall you reap. Same it is with karma. You will get fruits of the seeds you reaped.

SO BELIEVE.

Take decisions wisely

Hi folks,

When we are young we often end up making quick and hasty decisions. What is important is that we take wise decisions. Decisions about our career and our relations are crucial, taking them in a hurry or hastily will only worsen things.

One must make sure that such decisions are taken keeping in mind various factors like say for example if you are to decide on whether you want to take up commerce, science or arts. You could just go with what the world is doing and that wouldn’t be wise. You should rather sit back, analyse, analyse your forte, analyse what your interest is, chalk out a plan for yourself, look up the net, ask people who can help you, don’t follow anyone’s advice blindly even if it’s your parents or your mentor because in the end it is you who has to study and it’s your career. You would be the best and the right person to make that right choice, Have faith in yourself. Believe in yourself.

Well of course there is no denying that our parents would decide the best for us but yet you would be better than the best in this case. Be wise Take your decisions wisely.

How to handle relations?

When we grow up we try to take care of everything but sometimes we leave out or forget the most important things in life like relations. Here I am not talking about any relation in particular but I am talking about all relations in general. Like mother-child relation, father-child relation, relations with friends, teachers and everyone else.

The key to handle any relation whatsoever is to always keep calm. Understanding is crucial. It’s important that we understand the other person’s perspective too. Hear people out. Be a good listener. He calm and compost. Don’t get hyper or over react.

This is how we can handle relationships better and much wiser.

Happy as can be

Sad, depressed, frustrated, irritated, agitated, annoyed. Don’t be.

Be happy! What I have learnt from life in my 19 years is that life is how we take it. It is not about what actually happens to us that makes us feel bad but it is how we look at it makes us feel the way we feel for that thing.

Take for example, you broke your mug. You became very upset. Your Grandma shouted Good luck, because breaking of a glass is considered lucky by some. Your mother got annoyed because she would have to clean that. So the point I am trying to make here is that breaking of a mug is just simply breaking of a mug. There are no emotions attached to it. It’s the people around us and us who attach emotions to everything.

That is why we must be happy always. At least try to be. It makes life much simpler and better. It makes things go much smoother. It makes you feel better about life and that is what is important.